Great conversation starters from networking pros
Take the pain awkwardness discomfort out of networking
Some of us would rather get a root canal than spend an evening meeting a bunch of strangers. But, networking is not optional if you want to be successful and there is a way to do it that makes it easy. Here are ways to break the ice at a networking event.
- I don’t think we’ve met before. I’m …
- "Hi, I don't know too many people here, so I wanted to introduce myself. I'm [name] and I work at [company]."
- Great shoes! (or tie/hair/handbag/suit)
- I think we both know (insert name)
- So, what do you do?
- It’s my first time here and I’m trying to meet a few people. Mind if I start with you? I’m…
- How’s your day going?
- "I'll be honest, the only person I know here is the bartender, and I just met him two minutes ago. Mind if I introduce myself?"
- What brings you here today?
- “Wow, they have (insert name of food)! Have you ever tried it?”
- Do you have any big plans for the weekend/holiday/summer?
- I can’t stop eating these meatballs. Have you tried them?
- Is this your first time here? How can I help you?
- “Everything looks so good… I’m not sure what to get! What are you thinking?”
- Did you catch the game last night?
- Where are you from? Have you lived in the area long? Where do you work?
- "So, on a scale of 1 to undrinkable, how terrible is the Chardonnay?"
When approaching a group of people...
- “I just wanted to join and introduce myself.”
- Hi everyone. Do you mind if I squeeze in? I’m…
- Room for one more?
After you break the ice, keep the conversation going...
- I just read that…
- I can’t stay late. I’ve got to get home to watch…
- The last time I went to one of these events, I came home and my dog had … (People love talking about their pets.)
Extracting yourself from a conversation...
- Well, it has been so good to talk. How might I help you in the future?
- It’s nice to meet you. It seems like we have a lot in common. Can I send you a Linkedin invitation?
- I’ve really enjoyed meeting you. I’d really enjoy getting for lunch. Are you game?
- Time for me to get some food now that the line has died down. It was great meeting you!
- I’d enjoy talking with you again. Can I get your card?